Subtle Art Of Noticing
- sgexplorer01
- May 29, 2024
- 2 min read
Wanna know how can you give someone the brightest smile?
Small act, lasting positive impact! A thoughtful gesture goes a long way.
People forget what you say, people forget what you do, but people always remember how you make them feel. Heard this before, right?
When interest meets observation, you notice and remember something about someone and bring it up at a random instant and dissolve magic in the moment.
Where interest lies, details blossom. You will know their third favourite colour, how they like their tea a little cold. This attentiveness has the potential to spark absolute joy inside of someone.
The scent they love. The fruit they hate. The part of pie they crave. The ice cream flavour they least like. The emoji that stays on their fingertip. The music taste their caller tune indicates.
Every detail, big or small, is a whispered secret you not only hear, but remember, and use in making their day a little brighter, and smile a little wider.
Noticing goes beyond actions; it encompasses emotions too.
How the other person is feeling about something you said and then framing the rest of the conversation, taking care of that.
This 'Noticing' can be upto any extent and it happens automatically if we are considerate enough. For people who have a special place.
How their face lights up when you talk about something they are really passionate about. How their face goes dull and old wounds resurface when a subject that they are sensitive about comes up.
How they are hiding sorrows behind their smile or hiding their evil smile behind their prank XD.
In fact, keep your eyes peeled to notice how people around you go extra mile to make you smile, efforts they make to make your day better. Someone holding the door, lending a hand, or even just asking "you alright?"—those little things add up. How lucky you are to have these gold threads in the tapestry of your life!
The "Subtle Art Of Noticing" is about the everyday stuff that weave magic into everyday moments, making smiles brighter and hearts lighter.
Perfectly narrated. The art of noticing comes from the heart for a person. You don't have any control over your noticing power. Sometimes you don't want to notice someone, but your mind notices everything and remembers it forever.
Love that 💕...the way you explained!😍
Like that one instance when you're having a conversation with them, and you bring up a little thing they uttered subconsciously and forgot about later, and you see that cherished smile light up their face and oh the joy and feeling of contentment it brings to you... It's the little moments like these that make your bond with them so special <3 And as always, loved the read!!
I have observed, your writing often relates to the actual scenario. Truly admire your talent 😊.
Beautifully written! 🙌
Loved the idea of noticing the little details about someone. It's these small, thoughtful gestures that show we truly care about them.❣️